Category Archives: Weekly Reblog

Weekly Reblog #17: The Things That Seem Normal Now

Multiple canine passengers.  © Elizabeth, Land of Infinite Possibilities.

Multiple canine passengers. © Elizabeth, Land of Infinite Possibilities.

The Things That Seem Normal Now | Land of Infinite Possibilities

“My senses are filled with sights, sounds, and smells.Things I hear are karaoke in the distance, monks chanting, frogs, dogs barking, motorbikes, tuk tuks, tokay gecko chirps. Now I don’t even react to the loud gunshot type sound I hear, and figuring it’s just another firecracker, even if it’s in the middle of the day.”

- Elizabeth, Land of Infinite Possibilities

Living in a foreign country, or even spending a prolonged time away from your own, you certainly begin to take note of those things that are different from wherever you may be most familiar with.  After a while though, you begin to loose the immediate wonder that these odd sights initially sparked.  Daily routine and a more general shifting of norms settle in as you become more comfortable in the foreign environment.

Of course you could also always just as easily overlay your own culture on top of the foreign one to make yourself more comfortable.  This becomes particularly easy to do in a city like Bangkok.  In theory, I could live just like I would back in the U.S.   Maybe even better.  I could stay in my upper-scale apartment.  I could go around the corner to McDonalds or Pizza Hut and have numerous western and ethnic foods delivered from restaurants on Sukhumvit.

But what would be the point of that?

To stay the same in a new place, you might as well have never left where you come from.  One of the most basic ideas of seeing new places, whether it’s only a couple day vacation to a prolonged sojourn to long-term residency, is to learn and hopefully understand something about that place.

There is a converse point to that as well.  Many of us come from countries that are inherently multicultural.  In a country as unilaterally nationalist as Thailand, or many other SE Asian countries, the monotony sometimes needs to be broken up.  And thankfully Bangkok has a constant revolving door of travelers from over the world that can and do provide a break from the homogeneity.

Still, looking back at these things and thinking about what made them so fascinating in the first place can bring back that same sense of wonder.  This week’s Weekly Reblog post did that for me.  In this long series of completely arbitrary sights common throughout Thailand and some of its neighbors, Elizabeth of Land of Infinite Possibilities has reawakened a small sense of nostalgia and curiosity of seeing these things for the first time.

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Weekly Reblog #16: Why Do I Come Here? [Antarctica]

One of the many available jobs in Antarctica.  © Kiell, brown paper blue ink

One of the many available jobs in Antarctica. © Kiell, brown paper blue ink

Why Do I Come Here? | brown paper blue ink

“I come here because it frames my whole life from a totally different perspective, because it makes me appreciate little things I can’t have . . . It makes me appreciate things I don’t like . . . It makes me appreciate my family and friends even more, because although the people here are living amazing lives and while I love some of them, I don’t choose them.

I come here because it gives me a chance to learn things in ways I couldn’t learn them at home; every little thing  . . . things I might never fall into at home.

And, well, because it sounds interesting.”
– Kiell, brown paper blue ink

 

With my time in Thailand reaching its final few months, I can’t help but shift my eyes to further horizons.  One thing that is in every traveller’s bucket list is to visit every continent. For most, this remains an impossibility.  Antarctica is just too far.

So I thought until I first came to Thailand.  In my TESOL training course here, I met Sarah, a girl who worked as a truck driver at McMurdo Station in Antarctica a couple years before.  Hearing her stories, I got a more complete idea of just how accessible and inaccessible Antarctica might be.

So the question I must ask myself, though, is what would possibly interest me about going there?  I’ve lived and worked in relatively small and isolated and even cold places before.  What did I learn from them?

I hate long periods of isolation.
I hate living in small communities.
And certainly I hate cold.

So what interests me?  It’s different.  It’s a story.  It somewhere new and somewhere that so many will never get to in their entire lives, and it is somewhere that I can go if I want to.

The trade-off?  All that isolation and uncomfortable intimacy and cold would all be magnified to a level I can’t yet imagine.

In this week’s Weekly Reblog, Kiell of brown paper blue ink gives one of the best personal testaments I have come across about life in general at one of the Antarctic outposts.  She goes into an inspirational description as to why the sacrifices are worth the benefits and in further posts goes into honest detail about many of the ups and downs of life near the south pole.

Some other good testimonial sites for working in Antarctica:

How to Get a Job in Antarctica 2013-2014:  Links | brown paper blue ink
What’s So Great About Antarctica? | blog.eliduke.com
Stacey in Antarctica | staceyinantarctica.blogspot.com
Big Dead Place | bigdeadplace.com

 

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Weekly Reblog #15: The Dvaravati Chedi of Roi Et

The Dvaravati Chedi in Roi Et, Thailand.  © South East Asian Kingdoms

The Dvaravati Chedi in Roi Et, Thailand. © South East Asian Kingdoms

 

The Dvaravati Chedi of Roi Et | South East Asian Kingdoms

“The town of Roi Et has never attracted more than the odd traveller passing through but for the art history fan or Dvaravati relic-hunter, it has one treasure. On the grounds of a wat called Wat Neua there is a most unusual chedi
- South East Asian Kingdoms

 

Roi Et is a town that has gained my interest lately.  Located almost in the dead center of Isan, this small provincial capital hosts much more history than a pass over on a map would lead one to believe.

This, apparently, dates back to the Dvaravati, the oldest civilization of what would be the modern Thailand.  The Dvaravati were the first group of Buddhists to enter South East Asia, coming from Burma.  Setting up their center at Nakhon Pathom, about 45 km west of Bangkok, they spread through Thailand and Laos, and even into Cambodia.

Meanwhile, centuries later, the Khmer Empire would influence this area and leave ruins like Ku Ka Sing, the site that initially enticed me to this area.  Despite not being located in Muang (the city of) Roi Et, these ruins had led me onto many more that I plan to investigate in the near future.

Since then, I’ve learned a good deal that the town itself has to offer.  They are exceptionally proud of their lake in the center of the town, which hosts a very large image of the Walking Buddha.  Otherwise, from pictures I have seen, it just looks like an overall more pleasant town than most in Isan I have seen.

The author of this reblog, southeastasiankingdoms.wordpress.com, has made it a point to raise awareness of those cultures that have eluded our modern recongition in this area.  I look forward to reading more entries in this blog

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Weekly Reblog #13: how to prepare to go travelling

A travel guide on Ko Tao.  © Lora Lorent, where the light is

A travel guide on Ko Tao. © Lora Lorent, where the light is

how to prepare to go travelling | where the light is

“now I’m no expert in backpacking, but I’ve been a fair few places so think I know a little bit about living abroad. travelling is stressful, no matter if it’s for a two-week vacation to europe or for a round-the-world backpacking trip. there is so much to sort out even before you take up off the ground, from booking overseas flights to researching passport and visa requirements. I found the whole process draining and somewhat overwhelming so for those who are thinking of doing the same as me, I’ve written a little list for you guys, to (hopefully!) make travelling a little easier and more organized.”

– Lora Lorent, where the light is

 

“Knowledge is power.”  A saying, too old to accurately attribute, but still wise enough to be in used to the modern day.  Knowledge is the key to indulging in any foray, ranging from business to politics to travel.

As much as I love the methods and benefits of whimsical travel; to show up someplace and not know exactly what to expect, there does come a point where some foreknowledge is necessary.  Jumping into the deep end is one thing, but you’d best be sure that deep end is free of sharks and riptides.    It’s fun to surprise yourself, but always be sure you’re prepared with the basic knowledge you’ll need to adapt to any situation.

To quote one of my favorite travel authors, David Childress, “Travel carefree, not careless.”

A blog I recently stumbled upon by a fellow Ko Tao scuba trainee, Lora Lorent’s where the light is, provides a recent post guiding would-be travelers in the basic knowledge they might need for their first long-term excursion to a foreign land.

More than the information, though, Lora’s blog is immensely entertaining to read.  She writes about all aspects of the life of a long-term traveller.  Relationships, hardships, and victories are all out there in a candid manner and written in a whimsical stream of consciousness style that I love to read and oftentimes wish I could replicate.

I also post this in concert with the first official post of the long-delayed Home in Nowhere articles this week.  Intended as tips for long-term sustaintable travel for those of us who don’t want to return anytime soon, the first post of Travel Costs – Accommodation will be out this week.

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Weekly Reblog #12: My Top 5 Travel Regrets

My Top 5 Travel Regrets | Roo Around The World

” . . . you will find new and exciting things everyday, and the more of it you uncover, the more you want to explore. So if (when) I go back to that part of the world again I vow to do it slowly and take my time.”
- Rusja Foster, Roo Around The World

Regrets, like justifications from last week’s Weekly Reblog, are something that comes up regularly in both travel and in life.  They may be small regrets; something that we didn’t or, maybe, did do.  Or they may be huge regrets; an opportunity we missed or an aspect of life or personality that seems too monumental to do anything about.

Following a chain of tags throughout the blogosphere, Rusja, the author of Roo Around the World, has written her own list of travel regrets.  Ranging from a specific missed experience to her approach to destinations, her list runs the gamut of small to large and is well worth a read.

Who knows?  I may also try my hand at listing off some soon too.

 

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Weekly Reblog #11: 10 Reasons My Parents Should Be Happy I Moved To Thailand

The post author on Koh Tao, © Morgan DeBois, EXPLORE.DREAM.DISCOVER.

The post author on Koh Tao, © Morgan DeBois, EXPLORE.DREAM.DISCOVER.

10 Reasons My Parents Should Be Happy I Moved To Thailand | EXPLORE.DREAM.DISCOVER.

“With each adventure I set out on, I learn so much more about myself. I was a different person when I returned from my study abroad experience in Australia, I learned and grew even more from my time in Hawaii and Thailand has given me another opportunity to really get to know what I’m all about. Each of these trips has taught me who I am, what I really care about and what I want from this life . . . I know that I will never settle for anything less than everything I want.”
- Morgan DeBois, EXPLORE.DREAM.DISCOVER.

We make justifications for the actions we take all too often.  Reasons that convince ourselves and others that what we do is worth it.  It can come before in terms of weighing pros and cons, but more often it seems these are made after the fact in some attempt to explain it to ourselves.

So what about those grandiose actions?  The ones that change your life and may, by consequence, even ripple into the lives of so many others who know you.   Can all the fantasies involved in the process of weighing the pros and cons prepare someone for the actual reality of it?

And that’s one conundrum about throwing yourself into the unfamiliar in a foreign land; it’s remarkable fantasy while being quite a tangible reality at the same time.

I would contend that moving to the other side of the world, something so radically altering to your life is something that you can only see the value of in retrospect . . . or at least at some point in the process, depending on how long you decide to stay away.

Morgan, the author of this post, has been in Thailand for a year and a half now and is soon leaving to return to the United States.  Gazing back on her experience, she has put together her list of reasons why her time here has been more than worthwhile.

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Weeky Reblog #10: Destination: Unknown

Destination: Unknown | Virgo Confessions

“I just want to go home. I want a place where I can call my home, but somehow after traveling the world and living on my own for so long, I’ve realized that I have lost that one place that I call home. I don’t even know what that place is anymore . . .”
- Daryl Tan, Virgo Confessions

It was strange to me to read this post.  Well, maybe not strange, but a bit of a removed concept.  Those lines written by the author; “I just want to go home. I want a place where I can call my home . . .” I can’t say that I have ever experienced that sort of realized reaction before.

Granted I’ve had fleeting moments of nostalgia throughout my travels.   A restaurant I find myself craving.  A friend I suddenly miss the company of.  The cat I’d known for 10 years purring next to me.  A place to know I could stay for an indefinite time when I am feeling irreconcilably miserable.  But those never seem to last.

I’ve never wanted to be “home.”  Settling down someplace may cross my mind occasionally.  Vancouver and Boston have always held special spots in my mind as a place of potential permanence.  But they are not where I am from, much less a home.

But then, what is home?  Is it simply the place you happen to be from?  Is it where you choose to be?  Is it where you end up?  Is it just a building?  The inconsistencies of language don’t necessarily seem adequate for a task like this.

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